75 First Dates

My Tinder Adventure

How It All Started

The background: It all started in the Fall of 2012. I had just broken up with my boyfriend of four years (The EMF or Ex Man Friend). After the break-up … Continue reading

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Safety vs. Convenience

Recently I stumbled across an article on IRL called “Privacy Settings High”  . It was written in answer to the question “Why would a girl be happy to meet up … Continue reading

June 26, 2017 · Leave a comment


The other night I was out and about in LA. It was a Saturday and a friend asked if I’d meet her at a bar after I wrapped up at … Continue reading

June 16, 2017 · 2 Comments

The Bumble Intro – 101

A ton of my friends have asked me over the past few years how I end up going on all these dates via Tinder and Bumble. The main lament seems … Continue reading

June 8, 2017 · Leave a comment

3 Years Too Late?

This St. Patrick’s day (2017) I received a message on Tinder. “So I haven’t used this app in a while and I happened to see this — it’s a bit … Continue reading

June 5, 2017 · Leave a comment

Lets Talk About Honesty

“You are a Dirtbag” I wrote. “Perfect” “You have been playing games since the day we met.” “Actually, it’s a new relationship, but whatever.” “Were you single 2 weeks ago … Continue reading

February 14, 2017 · Leave a comment

A Toast to the West Coast Man

Ok. So I have to admit it. I was wrong. A while back I threw up my hands at the idea of a man who would ask a woman out … Continue reading

December 27, 2016 · Leave a comment

To Take A Lover

As I enter my mid 30’s I’m beginning to see the various types of men around me. As always, there are friends, coworkers, boyfriends and exs, as well as the … Continue reading

December 5, 2016 · Leave a comment