75 First Dates

My Tinder Adventure

How It All Started

The background: It all started in the Fall of 2012. I had just broken up with my boyfriend of four years (The EMF or Ex Man Friend). After the break-up … Continue reading

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The Younger Guy

I have always wondered at men and women who date people who are far younger than them. In the case of much older men dating younger women, I often see … Continue reading

February 14, 2018 · Leave a comment

Learn to Talk Dirty, Learn to Say No

By now you have probably read the account that Babe.net regarding a woman named “Grace” and Aziz Ansari in which Grace accused Aziz of sexual assault and coercion and which … Continue reading

January 25, 2018 · Leave a comment

The Posse

So if you’ve been reading this you know I have a pretty extensive network of friends (both men and women) who I talk to about my love life. I’ve been … Continue reading

September 9, 2017 · Leave a comment

Send My Love to Your New Lover

A few nights ago I was out to dinner with some college friends. “Did you know that David* has a new girlfriend?” one asked me. “Honestly, haven’t spoken to him … Continue reading

September 2, 2017 · Leave a comment

Safety vs. Convenience

Recently I stumbled across an article on IRL called “Privacy Settings High”  . It was written in answer to the question “Why would a girl be happy to meet up … Continue reading

June 26, 2017 · Leave a comment


The other night I was out and about in LA. It was a Saturday and a friend asked if I’d meet her at a bar after I wrapped up at … Continue reading

June 16, 2017 · 2 Comments

The Bumble Intro – 101

A ton of my friends have asked me over the past few years how I end up going on all these dates via Tinder and Bumble. The main lament seems … Continue reading

June 8, 2017 · Leave a comment